07.28.08
Use Your Friends
There is no better set of people that can help develop one’s ability to speak a foreign language than those he usually hangs-out with. Friends, as many can attest, are good practice audience. One need not use the language he learned throughout conversations; a simple “Hello” or “How do you do?” will suffice. However, if one has friends that can speak the language fluently, he should talk to them using the foreign language; discuss with them the news, weather, sports, movies or just about anything under the sun. One must depart from his comfort zone in order to master his new language.
In public places or whenever one is apart from his circle of influence, the language should not be put on hold. One must be wary of opportunities where he can talk about his new language. For instance, when he hears someone speak the language at a supermarket, he should initiate a conversation with that someone. The conversation should not be all about the language; it must also touch some personal topics, such as the person’s hometown, job or hobbies. Introducing oneself to a total stranger and showing a sincere desire to know the person and the language they speak will not only develop one’s ability to use the language, it will also produce new friends.